Who ruined the friendship? Or what?
November 20th 2007 by pelfy in Life Of A Journalist-To-BeLast week, as I was waiting for my lecturer outside the lecture room, two course mates had a heated argument. At that moment, I was shocked to hear two girls screaming on top of their lungs, fingers pointing so close to each other’s faces. So close that I was afraid they might start a fight. I had no idea what caused them to scream at each other, but it was something to do with assignments.
A few days later, a source told me that Karipap was angry with Sausage because Sausage did not participate in most of their group assignments. In fact, Sausage was absent most of the time and the worst thing of all was that Sausage did not know that the assignment due date was 19 November 2007.
Karipap and Sausage exchanged some abusive words greetings.
Just today, I was talking to Pineapple and she said she has nothing to do with any of them. This means, she’s neutral. I also saw Sausage talking to Mango, but as far as my eyes can see, Mango was not listening to Sausage at all.
Now, who or what ruined the friendship? Assignment? Or Sausage?
In another case, Strawberry and Peanut also had an argument. No foul words were used because they fought without using their mouths, instead… I don’t know. They just don’t talk to each other.
Arguments started a few days ago when Strawberry promised to send assignment files to Peanut, but she didn’t. Her explanation was that she was busy with her Final Year Project (FYP). Now, for your information, everyone has to juggle with both assignments and FYPs. The question is, “who is not busy?” And also, if others can cope with both, why can’t Strawberry?
The cold war between Strawberry and Peanut ended, but it was for less than 24 hours. The second war started when Strawberry volunteered to save everything about the assignment into the CD. In my opinion, Strawberry’s responsibilities include checking the files required by the lecturer as well as organising them. But, to Peanut’s disappointment, Strawberry did not do any of the above. Maybe Strawberry did not do it intentionally, but in my point of view, it is already Strawberry’s final year in University. Strawberry should know what to do before submitting the group assignment.
The second assignment’s due date is 24 November 2007. Other groups have started doing the assignment, but I have yet to see Strawberry and Peanut sitting together, doing their work. When Peanut and two other group members were discussing, Strawberry was no where to be seen.
Now, tell me who ruined the friendships? Or what ruined the friendships?
November 20th, 2007 at 7:00 pm
WAH PIANG.
I was wondering, is “Sausage” a male? LOL.
By the way, I’m hungry already with all the mangoes and strawberries, I can’t think who ruined the friendship.
Re: Sausage is a female
November 20th, 2007 at 8:17 pm
haih…argument is very common in group assignment.
Yogurt also fight with Coconut. Their fight maybe more terrible than Strawberry and Peanut, but they still can work in same group for 2 years! Why? because Yogurt always tell Coconut, “what we’re arguing now just because we want our assignment better. So, don’t keep it in heart.”
For me, this was the last two semester in our uni life…Friendship is important than others!
Best wishes to all foods, gambateh!
Re: Thanks. I hope your words are heard. But, I think Coconut and you are able to stick together because you two have the same objectives. In Strawberry and Peanut’s case, I think it is a different story.
November 21st, 2007 at 2:13 am
I believe that Peanut might feel suffer psychologically with unnecessary problems. Time will melt the ice, perhaps… We cannot eat Karipap and Sausage at the same time (you might get sore throat, that is why both high-calories food are no match to each other). However, we can always eat Peanut and Strawberry together. Peanut is a clever girl, do you know what I mean? The Laici will see how clever is Peanut this time.
Re: Thank you for your kind words. I hope all fruits will read what you say.
November 21st, 2007 at 12:43 pm
Peanut and Strawberry need time and chance to talk and settle the problems. Strawberry need to face the problem and change the attitude. And Peanut should give a chance to Strawberry. “Arguing = Produuce a best result of assignment”.
Enjoy the Uni life within these two semesters. Peanut, Strawberry, Queen, Yogurt, Pineapple, Coke……All of them are friends forever. Choose a time and talk.
Re: Peanut says she hopes to settle things too, but by the way Strawberry is handling things, Peanut rather keeps her mouth shut. That’s what she said!
November 21st, 2007 at 3:24 pm
Thanks for leaving a comment on my blog, Pelfy!
Anyway,back to the topic. In my opinion, there is no “who” or “what” which ruins friendship. It all depends on each individual to treasure the friendship they have and also to fulfill their respective responsibilities, in your case, completing assignments.
Wow. Didn’t know that I can give advice to people. Guess it’s influence from your sis =X
Re: Thanks for the advice!
November 21st, 2007 at 8:57 pm
Friendship Forever..
Let’s enjoy our final year..
Re: Thanks for the advice, but will the friendship lasts forever? Only time will tell.
November 22nd, 2007 at 4:43 pm
If the friendship between peanut and strawberry can be eaily ruined just because of the argument…
Would the friendship between them are too frail to tie up? I think this really need time to get it solved.
Coconut fights with Yogurt, Queen, Walnut and Coke often and usually these foods will come to the conclusion at the end.
how to glue up all the pieces from the mirror that is smashed?i believe that the situation are not that bad like wat i mentioned it as the smashed mirror…
Re: Peanut says once the mirror is broken, it will never be the same again. Never. And also, the pieces of the mirror are no where to be seen, anymore. Anyway, Peanut says thank you for the advice.
December 2nd, 2007 at 12:15 am
This incident is passed quite a long time……
Did the mirror theory still work? The relationship reli cant as before?
Chinese ancient people said…
“the broken mirror will still have the cut even though the supergum is used.”
“Once you pull away the water, you can’t get it bek.”
Thus, arguement should be minimised…….
December 3rd, 2007 at 1:13 am
“Mirror mirror on the wall, may you gather two friends after all?”